Never Do This
Yes, you heard me right—never compare yourself to someone else, especially those you see on social media.
I remember when I was single, I would often look at beautiful photos of a girl who regularly posted on Instagram. She lived in a foreign country, had a boyfriend, and traveled to amazing places. I remember telling my friend, “Look how happy she is! She’s living her best life and has found the perfect partner.” My friend quickly responded, “Don’t be deceived by what you see on Instagram. My husband met them, and she constantly argues with her boyfriend. She’s not happy at all.”
I was shocked. It made me realize that no one posts their struggles on social media. Everyone shows only the good parts of their lives. They don’t reveal the fights, the depression, the loneliness, the issues—they just post a picture that tells a different story.
And here we are, thinking their life is perfect. Funny, isn’t it? 😄
Never Do This
Comparing yourself to others robs you of the joy of what you have and what God is doing in your life. It makes you think others have it better. You’ve probably heard the saying, “The grass is greener on the other side.”
But God calls those who compare themselves unwise. In 2 Corinthians 10:12 (AMP), it says, “When they measure themselves by themselves and compare themselves with one another, they are without understanding and behave unwisely.”
Let me tell you this: you are God’s best. He chose you to live an incredible adventure. Whether in public or in private, you are called to experience His fullness and joy. The best way to do that is by focusing on your own journey and what God has called you to do.
When you prioritize your relationship with God, you will witness His goodness. The joy that comes from that relationship is incomparable to anything the world can offer.
There will be moments when even your phone can’t capture the joy you feel when you are in His presence.
Trust God!
Remember Jeremiah 29:11: “For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” Hold on to this promise. God never breaks His promise!
XOXO
Alisha Joji
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