FREE! The 5 Day Prayer Journal (New launch)

FREE! The 5 Day Prayer Journal (New launch)

Hello Girls,

How has your daily time with God been?

Struggling to maintain consistency or does it feel like an empty ritual? Hmm… but we are sure deep down you have this desire to connect with your Creator like never before.

Well, we can help you in being intentional in your pursuit of God.

Prayer Journal


A Customised Prayer Journal for You


Presenting our new launch “My 5 Day Prayer Journal” to help you enrich and transform your daily time with God with Bible verse illustrations by Author Kim D’Souza.

Journaling your insights during your time with God is a practice that has been proven beneficial to many. Here are three immediate benefits to journaling:

  1. It brings clarity to your thoughts.
  2. It builds your faith as you see God speaking to you consistently through His word.
  3. It will eventually become a recorded milestone of your spiritual life.

 So, go ahead and download the FREE My 5 Day Prayer Journal by Soar Girls and write back to us at [email protected] how it changed your time with God.

Sheryl Gadre

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Feeling Hopeless? Or Desperate?

Feeling Hopeless? Or Desperate?

Hey, daughter of God. Are you feeling hopeless? Or are you in the midst of a situation where you’re desperate for help?

Well, here’s what David did when he found himself in a similar situation…

 But David found STRENGTH in the Lord!! 1 Sam 30:6

 Yes, the situation was desperate; the enemy had taken their families and not just their belongings. They were taken captive and not just RANSOME. They were gone, nothing to the sight, a hopeless situation. And they were ‘AS GOOD AS DEAD’, actually WORSE than dead. Death closes the chapter, captivity meant they were alive but none knew where they were.

 Ever been in that situation, where you see your loved one being dragged away from you ? Or everything you had was lost or was taken from you?

Go to God


The husbands, the fathers, the mighty men of valor in David’s army could do nothing but cry and moan. They lost even their senses as they wanted to stone David believing he was the reason for their children and wives missing. David was left with none, alone, pressed down, he was in despair but he knew the GOD he believed in HAD NOT LEFT HIS SIDE!!

This is a reminder if you are feeling hopeless or if you are in a desperate situation when you are losing strength and peace – GO TO GOD!

David “FOUND” “STRENGTH” in the Lord!

We later see in this story how he eventually gets back all that the enemy had dared taken from him and more!!

David recovered everything the Amalekites had taken, including his two wives. Nothing was missing: young or old, boy or girl, plunder or anything else they had taken. David brought everything back. He took all the flocks and herds, and his men drove them ahead of the other livestock, saying, “This is David’s plunder.” 1 Sam 30:18-20

Be encouraged, go to GOD, and FIND your STRENGTH in Him!!


Ruta Miller

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Should I Consider Marrying a Boy Who Watches Porn?

Should I Consider Marrying a Boy Who Watches Porn?

So, you like this boy and he likes you too. You have genuinely kept your emotions aside and are seeking God for His will for your marriage. Along the way, this boy confides to you that he is addicted to porn. What would you do? Should you still consider marrying a boy who watches porn?

Should I Consider Marrying a Boy Who Watches Porn?


Considering the shame that is associated with porn, it is credible that the boy has openly shared his struggle with you.

But the question is what’s his motive behind sharing? Is it because he is genuinely seeking a breakthrough in this area? Or is it because he is making you aware of his addiction to gain your sympathy and also so you don’t get a shock later. (We have heard people addicted to porn plead mercy saying: I don’t know what to do. It gets better of me every time)

Politely ask him some direct questions like: Why is he sharing it with you? Since when he has been addicted? Is he aware of the end road to porn? Has he taken efforts to overcome it? Has he opened up his struggle to someone mature and godly who he can be accountable to?

Porn is driven by lust and looks at sex as a commodity, thereby devaluing love, sacrifice and honour that are foundations to a godly marriage. It is as good as virtual adultery. Addiction to porn is progressive and unless dealt with in an aggressive manner, it can wreck relationships.

Walk away

As hard as it may sound, it is advisable at this juncture that you stop pursuing this relationship and move away in an amicable manner (without putting the person down or hurting him).

Clearly the boy is not ready for marriage and needs time, space and lot of “Word” to get delivered from the grip of porn. The root of pornography is often about one’s inner health and a broken identity than an external desire.

Give him space to take account of his life and take intentional steps to get to the root of this addiction and eliminate it.

Please don’t start mentoring

If he is asking you what to do, please don’t take up the task of mentoring him, rather direct him to a godly and mature man who can genuinely help him through the Word of God. If he doesn’t seem to have someone like this, he needs to make sincere efforts to find one.

Getting free from porn often is smoother and faster when you have an accountability partner.

Should I Consider Marrying a Boy Who Watches Porn?


One can’t be making excuses like, “I don’t know what to do. I am bound etc.” If one is capable enough to search and hide stuff in their gadgets to feed their addiction, then one should also be capable enough to search for a remedy for their problem. There are many sites/ apps like Covenant EyesMoral Revolution that deal exclusively with porn addiction and it’s roots, and provide long term Biblical solutions.

Marriage is not the solution please

Porn is fuelled by lust and marriage is not the solution to porn, if you are thinking that way. In fact research shows that marriages are two times more likely to fail if the man looks at porn and three times more likely if the woman looks at porn. We have seen cases where porn and it’s subsequent effects has broken trust in marriages and scarred the opposite person tremendously.
Marriages became miserable because it was not dealt with and it spiralled from one level of perversion to another.


Thank God that He Opened Your Eyes

It is hurting I know. But don’t cry or sulk over it. In fact you should thank God that you came to know the facts even before marriage was in the picture and not after you got married!

If the boy is serious about you, he will make efforts to change and if not you will soon figure that out.

Above all, trust God, if He has to bring you both back, He will, but right free your heart from any expectations and emotional attachments and let go…

Author Kim D’souza

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What if I fail? + FREE AUDIOBOOK (worth $3.95)

What if I fail? + FREE AUDIOBOOK (worth $3.95)

Friends that you need in life

Drumroll please!!! We are so happy to release the audio book Girl’s Here’s What You Never Knew…The audio book is out on all major platforms including and Google Playstore.

But all subscribers of this blog, get the audio link for Free. So what are you waiting for?

Try Something New … What if I fail?

By Sheryl Gadre

This audio book is very close to my heart, because it is my first project as a narrator!
Let me share with you my story of God’s grace.

Since childhood, I have dreaded to read aloud to a crowd. The handful of times I had tried, I admit the experience was unpleasant. In nervousness, the letters in my book seemed jumbled leaving me struggling and stammering. As though that was not enough, I had started to dislike my voice, as many people had hinted that I was nasal.

Years passed by, still felt the same about reading aloud – never wanted to do it.

At the start of 2020, I remember hearing my spiritual mother encouraging us saying: We should try and do everything we fear we can’t do, and achieve victory in it. Because unless we move beyond our comfort zones, we will never be able to experience the grace of God in those areas.

Try Something New,come out of your fear box,The call

Face your fears and conquer

At the time my spiritual parents Pastors Derrick and Kim encouraged me to convert their blog posts into podcasts.

And so, I entered the world of podcasting with zero broadcasting experience, and not to forget my “nasal voice”.

The Bible says in Philippians 4:13, I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. This verse became my truth while I was learning and preparing for this.

I was determined to overcome this fear by being intentional – reading about podcast hosts, recordings systems, audio editing platforms and voice modulation exercises.

Over the few months while I was doing my best to improve my voice; God was working inside of me, changing my heart. The Lord told me He was ready to use me, if I was available and willing to commit to serve His people.

I realized that God did not need my voice to be perfect, he only needed me to be committed to serve.

And as I started accepting that, my focus moved from me and my fears to serving and being a blessing to many.

Voila! Soon we launched our Pursue Him Audio Podcast last year in July. Click HERE to check out our episodes in case you haven’t already. Our episodes are short (mostly less than 10 minutes) and cover topics related to Christian Walk, Leadership, Marriage, etc.

You will be amazed to know that recently we hit a century, with 100 episodes already published!

Rise up & Do it

Girls, if the Holy Spirit is nudging you to do something, but you are scared because you think you will fail or you will not be good at it. Let me encourage you “Rise up & Do it”. Don’t wait to attain perfection in order to start, but start anyways!

In every step of the way depending on the Holy Spirit, He will take you from one victory to the other. And alongside, continually build your skills, learn, practice and repeat.

I was never interested in technology, could not even imagine “audio editing”. Today, I love editing audio and the creativity you can bring to the table through audio.

Feeling Inspired?

I look forward to seeing you pick a skill and overcome your fears. Mail me back here and I would love to cheer for you.

Till we meet again, remember: You are unstoppable in Christ!

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I Don’t Like My Smile

I Don’t Like My Smile

Identity issues

“A cheerful look brings joy to the heart; good news makes for good health.” (Proverbs 15:30 NLT)

When I was younger, I smiled and giggled at every silly thing. But one day, a random stranger commented, “She looks good, but her teeth are jutting out”. My friends, who heard this statement repeated it every time we met and made fun of me.

I was only a teenager at that time, and that statement scarred me. I became conscious of my teeth every time I smiled, talked or laughed. So much so that, I even changed the way I smiled for photographs.

This incident left a deep scar in me.

When I had an encounter with God, I realized that God loved me so much that He was willing to heal me of every visible and invisible scar. I could sense the sweet Holy Spirit nudge me every time I smiled and was reminded of that stranger’s statement, until one day I surrendered that scar to Jesus. He touched me and I was healed.

Not only this, but wonderful Holy spirit reminded me of my identity, I am Royalty!

But you are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, God’s special possession, that you may declare the praises of him who called you out of darkness into his wonderful light (1 Peter 2:9)

Hey girl, even as you are reading this, let me remind you – You are beautiful inside and outside, any shape or color. In the eyes of God – You are beautiful, You are Royalty!

And know that there is no scar so deep that God can’t heal, no mistake so bad that God can’t forgive, no problem so big that God can’t solve. All that God needs is your surrender.

And know that you don’t have to do this alone, we are with you.

If you are struggling with a similar hurt or scar, we encourage you to write to us at [email protected], and we would love to pray with you.

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Your God is a Shame-Breaker!

Your God is a Shame-Breaker!

Shame Breaker
Struggling with shame? Something you did or some incident involving you that brings lot of shame and condemnation to your mind? Months and years have passed yet you can’t seem to get over it? Here are 5 truths from God’s Word, that we pray, will set you free.

1.  His love> Your mistake

There is no wrong you can ever do that can outmatch the love and grace that Jesus offers to cover it. Nothing can separate you from His love! (Rom 8:39)

2.  There is hope

God never condemns, He only convicts. For God did not send his Son into the world to
condemn the world (John 3:17). Condemnation brings disgrace, conviction brings hope.

3.  Forgive yourself 

Forgive yourself. Your mistakes don’t define you. If God can forgive you, there is no reason for you to withhold that forgiveness from yourself. (1 John 1:9). Also forgive the person that may have caused you the shame.

4.  There is no evidence

When you completely surrender your life to Jesus, He offers you a clean slate. His blood justifies and sanctifies you. Sanctified means you are fully washed His blood. There is no evidence left! You are now hidden in Him


5.  Let go of your past

Your past is forgiven. Let go! and let go of the people who remind you of your past. Know that God is greater than your past, no matter how bad or unrepairable it looks.

Your God is a shame breaker!

Only 4 women are mentioned in the genealogy of Jesus and all 4 had a shameful past. Rahab – a sex worker, Tamar – an ‘immoral’ woman, Bathsheba – an adulteress, Ruth- A Moabite. But God used these broken vessels and turned their destinies around. When you surrender your life to Him, He can use your brokenness and make it glorious. You serve a God who is a shame breaker!

But the Lord God helps me; therefore I have not been disgraced; therefore I have set my face like a flint, and I know that I shall not be put to shame. (Isaiah 50:7)

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