A boy who has kept me waiting

A boy who has kept me waiting

Recently we received the below query from a girl. We thought of sharing it as a blogpost for the benefit of other girls who may have similar questions. Hope this helps!

I would like to share a problem /confusion in which I am stuck since the last 4 years but did not get the solution till now. In 2016, I came across a boy through a matrimony site. We liked each other a lot. He and his sister’s family came to my house. However after this, he began making excuses regarding marrying me. This continued for 2 years. Then I thought he doesn’t want to get married to me and I blocked him from everywhere. Again, he came to my place begging me not to leave him. I gave him a chance again, but today it has been 4 years. My situation is the same. What is God’s will, I can’t understand?
– Ankita Singh (name changed for privacy)

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Sharing below our response to her situation.

It always excites us to hear someone seek the will of God in their circumstance. We can imagine the amount of unrest this situation must have caused you over the years. And this is definitely not the way God works.

From your description, it is very evident that the boy shows signs of instability.

The word of God says, A double-minded man is unstable in all his ways (Jam 1:8).

If he is unsure of marrying you, pick up the hint and beware. He is clearly taking advantage of you considering the fact that you have got emotionally connected with him. Please download this book on – Breaking Free from unhealthy soul ties, and read: https://soargirls.com/soulties/

And, be encouraged dear friend, until God your father is on the throne your future is not uncertain. Put your trust in God, His choice and His thoughts are always a better option to choose.

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Happy Galentine’s Day!! Yes, you heard it right. Somebody sent us a message that while Feb 14 is celebrated as Valentine’s Day, Feb 13 is Galentine’s Day, a day to recognize the impact that our girl friends have on our lives and thank them for their steadfast loyalty, love, and laughter.

So, we want to say to you, no matter which part of the world you are in, we celebrate you. Well, not because Ms.Galentine says so, but because you are uniquely created and cherished by our Father in heaven. And we thought of doing a JUST LIKE THAT GIVEAWAY for you, because we don’t need a special occasion to celebrate you!!

We are giving away Super Cool Dead Sea Products by Ahava + Soar Painting by God’s Fingerprint and a colour copy of the ebook: Girls, Here’s What You Never Knew

 

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Show the devil his place!

Show the devil his place!

At home my sister and I have an internal joke where we tease each other saying, “The women of the house must clean, wash and cook and that’s our place”. When one of us have something to do, we scream out ‘Know your place’ (which simply means just do the work what you are supposed to do). Now hold on!! Before you start revolting against me, as I said earlier that’s just a joke – Our place isn’t anything less, but we are all just responsible as sons and daughters of the house.

But the Lord showed me, as we give a person a special place in the house, we Christians tend to give satan a special place in our lives, than we give God.

How you ask? Well…

You entertain his thoughts, his baits, his lies, his deception, his temptations?

Condemning thoughts keep coming in your head?

You devalue yourself?

Are you constantly worrying?

How the devil works?

The devil will bring that bait of your weakness and bring it in your presence and he will say, “C’mon, catch it, it’s your old habit. It’s harmless. Just do it once”.

And once you fall for it, you realise later that you are already in a trap of this ongoing cycle of lies and condemnation.

One day the same happened to me, where the enemy gave me a series of thoughts that were not in line with God’s Word. That’s when God showed me loud and clear, “Hey it’s just a bait. You are not the devil’s fish, but you are a fisher of men’.

And that day, I remember, I said out loud, “Get lost devil with your schemes. Know your place”. And when I did that, I felt so free instantly.

Show the devil his place!

Don’t give the enemy a place in your head. The last time I heard he is the size of the rat and still is. He belongs to the pit of hell and THAT’S HIS PLACE. He has no power. Don’t let him rent space in your mind to make you feel lost, distracted, stuck, weak, overwhelmed, depressed or oppressed.

You are called to oppress and depress the devil. Fight back those feelings. And the best way to do it is by saying God’s Word out loud. Sing praises to God.

Little children, you are from God and have overcome them, for he who is in you is greater than he who is in the world. They are from the world; therefore they speak from the world, and the world listens to them. (1 John 4:4-‬5 ESV)

The world listens to the devil and his cohorts because they belong here, but we are not of this world since we are now in Christ and so we have authority! You are an overcomer in Christ. You are called to soar!

If you are fighting temptation, distraction, bondages in thought life, depression, weakness, contact us and we will pray for you.

 

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Welcome to Soar Girls Blog!

Welcome to Soar Girls Blog!

Welcome to SOAR GIRLS – A blog for the girls and by the girls!

We have received so many testimonies from across the globe of how God has touched lives through the book ‘ Girls, Here’s what you never knew… ‘ and given girls godly wisdom and direction. (In case you missed reading the book, go to www.pursuehim.net/girlsbook to know more about this book)

 

Best Selling Book Girls Here's What you Never Knew...

 

Book done, now what?

Our end motive was never to write a book, but to transform lives. And so, God led us to initiate this blog where we could stay in touch with you and partner with you in your Jesus journey. Together we are stronger and together we will soar high above the usual issues of life.

The team behind Soar Girls: Who are we?

We are a group of girls, who have been set free by Jesus. We are not perfect but we believe together in one mind through Christ we can change the world when we hold each other up. And so, we are here to build encourage, edify , talk about out identity, purpose , calling, relationships, friendships, and everything under the sun that concerns you.

Check out our home page soargirls.com

If you are on Instagram, we would love to connect with you HERE .

Before we sign off, here’s one question we want you to ponder upon:

Do you have a vision for 2021?

Ever tried playing a game of soccer without the goalpost? That’s crazy right? So is it with us – A goal or a vision in front of us brings clarity, focus and purpose. The Bible says, where there is no vision, the people perish ( Prov 29:18 )

So think what is it that you want to achieve by end-2021? How do you see yourself growing in your walk with Jesus? What are the things/habits you need to let go off ?

After you thought and prayed about it, write it down and stick it at a place that you can see it every day.

Now remember you CAN’T achieve the above!

You read it right.

But allow us to complete the sentence- You CAN’T achieve the above ALONE!!

Let’s lean on God’s grace to see us through! He is good and He is for us 🙂

 

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