Do You Assume Too Much? The Hidden Power of Assumptions 💭🤼

Do You Assume Too Much? The Hidden Power of Assumptions 💭🤼

Have you ever found yourself assuming things without knowing the facts or having proof? Your mind starts creating scenarios, and before you know it, you’re convinced they’re true—without any real evidence!

For example, imagine a friend doesn’t reply to your message. Instead of waiting patiently, you come up with ten different reasons why they’re ignoring you. 

Maybe they’re upset with me? Maybe I said something wrong? 

When, in reality, they could be sick, overwhelmed with work, or simply away from their phone.

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Or perhaps someone you used to talk to hasn’t kept in touch for a while. Instead of reaching out, your mind floods with doubts and assumptions about why they’re distant.

How Assumptions Can Harm Relationships

Assumptions are nothing but lies in our head conspired by our feelings, emotions, past history, scars or fears.

The power of assumption is dangerous; it can damage friendships by making you feel rejected or unimportant. It could also erode trust in relationships by making you suspicious or defensive. And, at its worst lead to unnecessary conflicts arising from misunderstandings.

One of the biggest relationship killers is assuming what others think about us based on how they act, speak, or treat us. Instead of seeking clarity, we let negative thoughts take root, leading to unnecessary tension.

 

Refuse To Let Negative Assumptions to Take Root

Don’t be too spiritual or too knowledgeable, when it comes to knowing the thoughts of people. Jesus is the only one who can discern the thoughts of people. But today we try to discern thoughts only in the negative way.

In Matthew 9:4 the Word of God says “Knowing their thoughts,Jesus said, “Why do you entertain evil thoughts in your hearts?”. That shows we have the power to entertain bad thoughts in our hearts.

1 Peter 5:8-9: “Be sober-minded; be watchful. Your adversary the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour” .

To be sober-minded means not allowing emotions or fears to cloud your judgment. Before making assumptions, take a step back and ask yourself:

  • Is this really true?
  • Am I letting my emotions lead me?
  • Is there a better way to respond—like seeking clarity instead of assuming?

Instead of jumping to conclusions, choose peace and simply refuse to assume things.

XOXO,

Alisha Joji

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How to expand your influence in this season. (Part 3 & 4)

How to expand your influence in this season. (Part 3 & 4)

Do you know that as a child of God you do not need to strive to create an influence?

When the rulers and elders of Israel saw how the ordinary disciples, Peter and John were working miracles, they realized that they had been with Jesus. (Acts 4:13).

When you walk with the Light you will begin to create influence without any striving.

Watch Part 3 & 4 of this 4 part series where Author Kim D’Souza expands further on how you can expand your influence in this season by walking with the Light and the importance of moving by faith.

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How To Expand Your Influence in This Season 👼

How To Expand Your Influence in This Season 👼

God’s standard for His children is this- function as the light in this world. What is light? Light is influence. In this season, God wants to expand your influence.

So, how can you gain your influence and expand to the point where you begin to influence the world?

Watch Part 1 & 2 of this 4 part series by Author Kim D’Souza as she teaches us on how to expand your influence in this season and the power of carrying a thankful heart.

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7 Declarations Of Favour + Bookmarks

7 Declarations Of Favour + Bookmarks

Favour is God’s way if elevating you. It is God’s ‘partiality’ towards you. And one moment of God’s favour can save us years of Labour. Here are 7 powerful declarations of Favour based on God’s Word that will transform your life.

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Enjoy these printable bookmarks available in 6+ designs for a size 2 by 6 inches. Contains 7 powerful favour declarations based on God’s Word that can transform your life. Just click, download, print and use! Written by: Kim Dsouza

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12 Powerful Declarations for Your Workplace + Free Giveaway!!

12 Powerful Declarations for Your Workplace + Free Giveaway!!

Work can be challenging, stressful, and overwhelming. But have you tried God at work? He makes work more pleasurable. The more you surrender, seek Him, and ask His help, the easier it gets, and you will begin to find favour in the most unlikely places.

One day, my mother-in-law, Sophy, taught me something. She said, “Before you start work, just surrender your work and the laptop to God and pray. That’s how you start work.” That touched me because many times, I rush to switch on the laptop and start working without acknowledging God. Proverbs 3:6 says, “In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make straight your paths.” God loves your dependency on Him; when you depend on Him, you will see Him come through at work.

Also, my spiritual mother, Author Kim, often emphasizes the power of what we believe and declare. God used words to create the world (Genesis 1) and taught us to speak to mountains to move even with faith just as big as a mustard seed. (Matthew 17:20-21)

Declarations

I love this promise of God in Psalms 3:3, which says, “But you, Lord, are a shield around me, my glory, the One who lifts my head high.” Isn’t our God amazing that He wants our heads held high?

Below, I’m sharing some powerful declarations that you can speak over your workplace, today and every day. As you believe and declare these, you will no longer be burdened by your work, but you will begin to see blessings in your work life.

12 Powerful Declarations for Your Workplace

  • I have the mind of Christ to be guided by His thoughts and purposes. (1 Cor 2:16)
  • Whatsoever I put my hands to, it will prosper. The works of my hands are blessed. (Deut 28:8, 28:12)
  • I will be blessed in the city and the country. (Deut 28:3)
  • Blessed will be my basket and kneading bowl (Your bike, car, instruments, laptop, utensils, products, software, project etc.). (Deut 28:5)
  • Blessed shall I be when I come in and when I go out. (Deut 28:6)
  • I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. ( Phil 4:13)
  • I will see the work of God and His glory at my job. The favor of God is upon me, and He has established my work. (Ps. 90:16-17)
  • Whatever I do, I work heartily as for the Lord and not for men, knowing that I will receive the inheritance as my reward from the Lord. I am serving the Lord Jesus Christ. (Col 3:23-24)
  • I am the righteousness of God in Christ Jesus; I am blessed, and the Lord surrounds me with favor as that of a shield. (Ps. 5:12)
  • I do all things without grumbling or disputing, that I may be a blameless and innocent child of God without blemish in the midst of a crooked and twisted generation, among whom I shine as lights in this world, holding fast to the word of life. (Phil 2:14-16)
  • I am diligent, I am wise, and I have a diligent hand. (Prov 10:4)
  • Promotion does not come from the East or West, but my promotion comes from the Lord. (Ps 76:6-7)

 

A special giveaway just for you!

Thank you for being a cherished part of our soar girls community. We hope these printable bookmarks bring a smile to your face, and empower you everyday at your workplace. God says, “So shall my word be that goeth forth out of my mouth: it shall not return unto me void, but it shall accomplish that which I please, and it shall prosper in the thing whereto I sent it.” Isaiah 55:11

Happy reading with your new printable bookmarks!

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Alisha Joji

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But I Have Tested Him And He Is on My Team 🧑‍🤝‍🧑

But I Have Tested Him And He Is on My Team 🧑‍🤝‍🧑

When situations come to test you, when problems come your way, do you end up doubting the love of God? Do you begin to question if He is actually with you? Do you feel as though God is angry with you and punishing you for some sin you committed?

Today, let’s put an end to this argument.

I want you to imagine this.

You have done something awful and brutal, like committing a murder, and it is confirmed publicly that you are guilty; even you know in your heart that you have done it. Now you deserve the punishment, and the situation demands that justice be done.

He loves me

In that situation, your Father stands up and says, “Leave her out of this; take me instead, and I will take her place.”

And you stand there with the entire city being called, and right before your eyes, your Father is beaten mercilessly to the point that He is disfigured, completely stripped and mocked and spat on.

At that point, if somebody comes and asks you if your Father really loves you, what will be your reaction?

Pause and think.

I’m sure there won’t be even a moment of doubt in your head because you have seen what has happened. And I’m sure that at this point, you will doubt the entire world, but you will not doubt your Father because now His love is tested, and you are fully convinced that He is for you and that His love will never fail.

Right?

Daughter, hasn’t your God done exactly the same for you? The Bible says, in Romans 8:31-32 (NKJV), “What then shall we say to these things? If God is for us, who can be against us? He who did not spare His own Son, but delivered Him up for us all, how shall He not with Him also freely give us all things?

Then why do you doubt when you face problems in your life? Why do you waver? Why do you still question this good, good Father who stripped Himself completely for you?

Let this one thing be tested and proved in your life, that He loves you and that He is for you!

Let this become your declaration whenever a problem comes- “But I have tested Him, and He is on my team.”

So next time when somebody says, “Hey, look at you! You are not even married; everyone else is married“, stand up and say, “But, I have tested Him, and He is on my team.”

When somebody says, “Look at you, you don’t even have a job; look at your friends, they’ve all gone abroad to study, and nothing is happening in your life.”

What is going to be your response? “But I have tested Him, and He is on my team.”

When somebody says, “Look at you, how weak you are, you are struggling”, get up and shout, “But, I have tested Him, and He is on my team.”

Tomorrow when problems come your way, I want you to remember this line and remember your Father. If He did not spare His only Son for you, what makes you think you’re less loved? What makes you think that you are a nobody? What makes you feel that your life is without purpose?

From this day on, every time a situation comes to mock you, every time that addiction comes and tells you there is no hope for you, will you remember this line?

“But I have tested Him, and I know, and I know, and I know that He is on my side!!”

XOXO
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