How You Can Open Doors to Unhealthy Soul Ties

How You Can Open Doors to Unhealthy Soul Ties

by | May 26, 2026 | Christian Walk, Healing & Freedom

“Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” Proverbs 4:23

Last week we saw how to identify unhealthy soul ties. This week we’ll look at how unhealthy soul ties are formed. (If you missed the previous post, you can read it here on how to identify unhealthy soul ties in your life)

The most common way you can open up doors to soul ties is through emotional connections. It all starts harmless, but if you don’t guard your heart, it can soon become a snare for you.

Soul Ties

Girls, for this reason, you should avoid sharing your emotional touch points, weaknesses or past hurts to someone from the opposite sex. If you need help, first run to God and ask Him to lead you to a mature person in the Lord and of the same sex, who can help you overcome.

Similarly, if the opposite person is trying to open up his deep hurts to you, don’t entertain him, instead direct him to a mature mentor in the Lord.

Girls, beware just because a man pursues you and doesn’t give up that doesn’t necessarily mean he is from God. The reason behind his pursuit could be lust, or a soul tie in the form of an idol or loneliness. The Holy Spirit is our perfect example of a gentle man. He never forces His way to get to us.

Also remember a girl and a boy cannot be ‘best friends’ without ending up in a deeper relationship! The Bible says: So, if you think you are standing firm, be careful that you don’t fall! (1 Cor 10:12) So, guard your heart.

Unhealthy soul ties also take root through abusive relationships, sex before marriage, live-in relationships, adultery etc. These are absolutely demonic with devastating physical and emotional consequences.

You see when we give ourselves to someone fully before we are married, it creates the opportunity for deep scars and hurts. Two people may decide to get intimate ‘just for the fun of it,’ yet something is occurring on another level that they may be oblivious to.

Conversely, soul ties often lead to body ties resulting in physical relationships. Some soul ties cause such deep trauma that people lose their sense of reasoning and get into depression or become suicidal. 

Girls, if you are finding yourself in such a relationship, break it before it breaks you. 

In the next part, we’ll look at how to break free from unhealthy soul ties and walk out of such relationship bondages. Or you can also download our full devotional on how to break free from unhealthy soul ties. 

XOXO

Kim

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How To Identify Unhealthy Soul Ties In Your Life?

How To Identify Unhealthy Soul Ties In Your Life?

by | May 18, 2026 | Christian Walk

After David had finished speaking with Saul, the souls of Jonathan and David were knit together, and Jonathan loved him as himself.
1 Samuel 18:1

What exactly is a soul tie?

A soul tie is a deep emotional connection or a bond with another person. When two people come together in a good soul tie, it is a blessing as the power of God intensifies, as seen in Deuteronomy 32:30.

1 Samuel 18:1 says, “the soul of Jonathan was knit to the soul of David” (ESV). Likewise, marriage represents a good soul tie between a husband and wife because their souls are joined together as one flesh (Mark 10:8).

unhealthy soul ties

When does a soul tie become unhealthy?

A soul tie becomes unhealthy when the opposite person becomes like an idol in your life, which can lead to addictive, manipulative, or violent behavior. It can serve as bridges between two people to pass demonic garbage through!

You may see this happening in relationships or friendships subtly over a period of time without you even realizing it, which makes it even more dangerous.

Unhealthy soul ties are selfish, whereas real love is based on having Jesus as the center of your relationship and looking beyond yourself. It is the devil’s trap to keep you away from God’s best in your life and can leave you drained, damaged, and condemned.

What are the signs that you are in an unhealthy soul tie?

  • The person becomes an idol and your mind is consumed with thoughts of that individual 24/7.
  • You are constantly checking on the person, his or her social media, and rehearsing your time with him or her.
  • You become obsessive and possessive about the individual and feel jealous if he or she is around other people.
  • You can’t let go of a relationship, even when it is abusive or negatively impacting you.
  • You lose your sense of reasoning, clarity, and judgment, and all you want is to please the other person.
  • You feel worse about yourself as the relationship goes on, and your family or leaders repeatedly express concern over the health of your relationship.
  • You give the person more authority in your life than you give God.

Finding yourself locked in such a relationship? Does it look like you can never fully move on?

God wants you free and your freedom is nearer than you think. Identifying an unhealthy soul tie is the first step to your breakthrough. 

In the coming weeks, we will look at the doors we may unknowingly open that allow unhealthy soul ties to form, and how we can truly break free from such relational bondages.

Want to skip the wait? Download our free ebook on unhealthy soul ties and find your freedom today!

XOXO

Kim 

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You Are An Investment Of God

You Are An Investment Of God

by | May 4, 2026 | Christian Walk

Many of us do not live to our full potential because we do not know our value. 

Do you know that God is an investor? And He is a shrewd investor. But when you look at how God invested in us, He broke every investor’s rule.

He invested in us when there was no visible value in our lives. Many of us were in the dumps, rejected, risky, and going down in value. In the eyes of the world, we looked like a liability. But in God’s eyes, we carried great value.

God is reminding you today, “Daughter, you are My investment.”

Investment of God

Do you know that when God invested Jesus in you, He invested His best in you. He took His best and placed Him in you. 

That means you are not a nobody. You are somebody! You are a walking, talking investment of God.

Declare this to yourself every morning: I am an investment of God.

When you really understand this, the way you walk will change. The way you live will change. Your confidence will be different. Because when God invests in something, His eyes remain on it. He watches over it, protects and preserves it.

And when you become God’s investment, you become dangerous. People cannot just fight you, put you down, or harm you. When they touch God’s investment, they end up dealing with the Investor Himself.

So what qualifies you to become God’s investment? Just one thing: believe in Him. Nothing else.

Even when you are in places where there is no fear of God, or in seasons where you make mistakes, this truth does not change. You are still His investment. His good thoughts are still tracking you.

So stop devaluing yourself. Stop spending your time on things that bring your value down. Invest in yourself. Upgrade your belief system by speaking what you want to see, speaking the truth, and speaking what God says about you and your life. Build your faith in the Word of God.

Remember, you are not on your own. You are somebody’s investment.

God has not brought you this far to leave you. Do not let limitations or inferior thoughts bind you. This is your season to fly high.

XOXO

Kim Dsouza

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When The Problem Looks Bigger Than You

When The Problem Looks Bigger Than You

by | Apr 15, 2026 | Christian Walk, Healing & Freedom

Sometimes in life you may face situations that look like a mountain before you; it looks beyond you, and it looks like it has come over to take your space and freedom. But here’s the greater truth: Your God is too good and He loves you unconditionally. He is for you and He is with you. So you can look at that mountain and say to it: “This is too small for my big God.”

Instead of speaking out loud your fears and worries, look at your problem and say, “This is too small a matter for my Big God!”This is not positive talk. It is the Word of God.

2 Kings 3:18 says, “…this is a simple matter in the eyes of God.”

Future

At that time, the kingdom of Israel was divided into two parts: Israel in the north and Judah in the south. Jehoram ruled Israel and he was a wicked king. Jehoshaphat ruled Judah and he was a good king.

Then the king of Moab picked a fight with Jehoram. So Jehoram and Jehoshaphat came together to fight Moab. They passed through Edom, a desert land, and joined forces with the king of Edom. Now three kings were going to battle, but after seven days, they had no water for the army or for the animals. They were devastated and felt it was over.

But they went to Elisha the prophet, and he gave them specific instructions from God: And he said, “Thus says the Lord: ‘Make this valley full of ditches.’ For thus says the Lord: ‘You shall not see wind, nor shall you see rain; yet that valley shall be filled with water, so that you, your cattle, and your animals may drink.’ (2 Kings 3:16-17)

Then Elisha says, “And this is a simple matter in the sight of the Lord”. (2 Kings 3:18)

The next morning, at the time of offering, suddenly, water came by the way of Edom, though Edom was a desert, and the land was filled with water. No rain. No wind. Yet the valley overflowed.

Then the Moabites looked at the water, and in the sunlight it appeared like blood. They assumed the kings had fought each other and rushed in for plunder, but Israel was ready and defeated them.

So whatever situation you are going through, can you look at it and say, “It is too small for my big God”? It is a simple matter in the eyes of God. When the enemy looks at you, he sees the Blood of Jesus. That is how protected and loved you are. You may not see wind. You may not see rain. And yet, you shall see the land filled with water.

Shalom.

Author Kim Dsouza

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Want to Build a Good Future? Start With This..

Want to Build a Good Future? Start With This..

by | Mar 31, 2026 | Christian Walk, Identity & Calling

Have you ever wished you could see your future? Do you know that as a child of God you have access to the future?

We don’t need to go to a fortune teller to know our future.The way you walk into the future is through your words. This is the power that God has given you and me. As you speak according to God’s Word, that becomes your future.

Mattew 18:18 says, “I tell you the truth, whatever you forbid on earth will be forbidden in heaven, and whatever you permit on earth will be permitted in heaven.”

It means God in heaven will allow whatever you allow on earth.

That means your future is in your mouth. Because God is saying whatever you allow with your words I’m gonna back you. Because the power of death and life is in your tongue.

Future

“Death and life are in the power of the tongue, And those who love it will eat its fruit.” Proverbs 18:21

So make sure you are building a good future with your words.

Shalom.

Author Kim Dsouza

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