Everyone’s getting engaged, married or having children and wondering when it will be your turn? Or are you just compromising and settling for a boy just because the clock is ticking even though you know he’s not the right one?
Girls, I believe the Lord wants you to hear this today.
Recently, I came across a reel of a very popular Bollywood actress where she was sharing how her father, when he was alive, gave her an eight carat diamond ring and told her that any boy that she decides to spend her life with has to beat that standard.
Immediately, the Holy Spirit spoke to me saying, her father gave her a diamond ring and do you see what your Father in heaven gave you? When God had to show His love, He didn’t give you diamonds or gold or silver but He gave His only begotten Son to die for you.
Girls, this is what you are worth..
And take a moment to picture this – when Jesus had to die it wasn’t with His arms straight or tied to His side, but rather with His arms open wide, pierced and nailed to the cross. And He did that while you and I were still sinners. (Romans 5:8)
That’s the worth your Father has placed on you. Can any boy beat that standard?
No man will ever be able to! Does that mean you shouldn’t get married? Certainly not! But the point that I’m trying to make is, don’t get swayed by the so called standards and timelines of this world. Don’t settle for the second best just because you feel you won’t get anyone better. Know your worth!
If you desire to get married, tell your Father in heaven and ask Him to prepare you in this season.
Trust your God. Trust His timing. He’s too faithful. He’s too good. And this God who gave you His son, will He not also graciously and lovingly give you what you desire? (Romans 8:32)
Only keep your eyes fixed on Him.
Here’s a song that Author Kim recently shared on telegram that has blessed me and every time I hear it, I can’t stop weeping at this line.
He has done great things.
Arms open wide, Lamb crucified.
Worthy is He
I hope it blesses you and reminds you of the good good Father you serve and the worth He has placed on you.
(Song – He has done great things)
XOXO
Rinnah