The One Thing You Should NEVER Do!

by Team Soar Girls | Oct 8, 2025 | Christian Walk, Healing & Freedom

Girl, can you say this with me?

Never! Never doubt the Word of God.

You can doubt your feelings, you can doubt your experience. You can even doubt your friends.

But never doubt the Word of God.

But sometimes when we go through a problem for a long time, we may begin to doubt the Word of God. We may begin to wonder why is God not working in my life?

Maybe you see that in a particular area you have not received your breakthrough for a long time. The devil will even lie to you that God is ok with you being blessed in all the other areas, but this area He has spared.

That’s what he said to Eve. He showed her how God had given them the entire garden but spared that one tree.

Yet Romans 8:32 says, “He who did not spare His own Son, but delivered Him up for us all, how shall He not with Him also freely give us all things?”

When Joshua and the Israelites were finally in the promised land, we see Joshua testifying how not one Word that the Lord spoke had failed.

“Behold, this day I am going the way of all the earth. And you know in all your hearts and in all your souls that not one thing has failed of all the good things which the LORD your God spoke concerning you. All have come to pass for you; not one word of them has failed.” (Joshua 23:14)

So when you don’t see a breakthrough in an area, you need to get into the Word and start reasoning and asking like Gideon.

“Gideon said to Him, “O my lord, if the LORD is with us, why then has all this happened to us?” (Judges 6:13)

You need to investigate and wrestle with God asking, “My God is good; He gave me His Son Jesus, and if I am not seeing a breakthrough in my life in this area what is it that is blocking it?”

And you will find the answers not from your friends or Google, but from the time you spend reading the Word of God.

This is where you will receive the keys to open every stubborn door in your life.

Remember, if there is one thing that is unshakeable it is the Word of God. This is the only foundation that will stand the storms that come your way and make you overcome it.

XOXO

Author Kim Dsouza

You Are Wearying God, And This Is How…

by Team Soar Girls | Sep 18, 2025 | Christian Walk, Healing & Freedom

Can the Almighty God who created the heavens and the earth get tired? Do you know that the Bible says that He does get tired? Want to know how? This is what Malachi 2:17 says:

“You have wearied the LORD with your words”

You can weary God with your words.

Again Malachi 3:13-14 says,

“Your words have been harsh against Me,” Says the LORD, “Yet you say, ‘What have we spoken against You?’ You have said, ‘It is useless to serve God; What profit is it that we have kept His ordinance, And that we have walked as mourners Before the LORD of hosts?”

We may not outrightly speak like this. But when we say things like I am not good enough, I cannot do it, I am a loser, you are wearying God with your words, and thereby limiting God with your words.

God wants to do big things in your life. God wants to give you nations(Acts 2:8). But when we speak things like How is it going to be possible? I can’t even speak properly, I’m not qualified, you are limiting God.

Do you know that one of the names of God is, “I Am”? And how many times do we take the name of the Lord in vain? When you say I am not worthy, I am incapable, I am so ugly, I am not beautiful like her or gifted like her, you are taking the Lord’s name in vain and you are wearing your God.

Your words are the only extent to which God will work in your life. If you think God can do only this much in your life, that will become the limit to which God will work in your life.

Consider this: whatever you see God did for anyone in the Word of God is an invitation for you. If God can do it for Abraham, He can do it for you. If He can do it for Ruth, He can do it for you.

Only, never limit God by your own words.

XOXO

Author Kim D’Souza

Unveiling the Power of Service + New Launch: Why The Devil Hates To See You Serve

by Team Soar Girls | Feb 18, 2025 | Christian Walk, Healing & Freedom

In God’s kingdom, there are certain principles, which when activated brings the blessings of God on your life. One such principle that will bring kingdom exploits into your life is SERVICE. And the best thing about serving in the house of God is that you don’t need any special gifts or talents for it. Anyone can serve.

Because the devil knows that this is a principle that will cause you to reap exploits in your life, he twists it and makes it look bad so that you walk away from it.

“..Jesus, knowing that the Father had put everything into His hands, and that He had come from God and was [now] returning to God, got up from supper, took off His [outer] robe, and taking a [servant’s] towel, He tied it around His waist. Then He poured water into the basin and began washing the disciples’ feet and wiping them with the towel which was tied around His waist.” (John 13:3-5 AMP)

Jesus had the power to show off because He knew that the Father had put everything into His hands. But He shows it off by doing something very cool— He served!

He took off His outer garment and began to do the job of a servant. Washing someone’s feet was the job of the least of the servants. And this is what Jesus did. And this is the attitude God wants us to have.

What is service?

Service is God’s hidden power.

Service is love in action.

Service is seeing a need in the house of God and fulfilling it.

The House of God is His bride, His body and God holds it of great value. When you start serving in the House of God, you will learn what no seminar or Bible study can teach you.

Want to know more about how to serve in the House of God efficiently and with excellence? We have an exclusive ebook that will give you in depth understanding and insights into everything you need to know about serving in the House of God.

Written by Author Kim D’Souza, Why The Devil Hates To See You Serve will open your eyes to why the enemy fights the principle of serving. It will also show you how you can attract God’s favour and unlock hidden treasures in your life through service. Bonus! In this book, you will discover 10 principles of serving to help you serve efficiently in God’s house.

With this resource you will be fully equipped to serve in God’s house with the right heart and the right understanding.

Get your copy of “Why The Devil Hates To See You Serve” here!

XoXo,

Team SoarGirls

These 2 Questions Will Ensure You See Your Promise Land This Year!

by Team Soar Girls | Feb 5, 2025 | Christian Walk, Healing & Freedom

Hope your 2025 is off to a great start! Many of us are carrying the promises of God over our lives and working towards seeing them fulfilled in this year.

When Israel was at the verge of their promised land, God sent a Word to them encouraging them to go in and take the land. Israel was right at the gates of their promised land. But that generation, except Caleb, did not see the promised land because they chose to believe the report of man and not the promises of God. (Read Deuteronomy 1)

This year as you are believing to see the promises of God fulfilled over your life, there are 2 questions that you need to ask yourself often to ensure you don’t miss out on the promises of God this year.

1. What Are You Speaking?

“They also took some of the fruit of the land in their hands and brought it down to us; and they brought back word to us, saying, ‘It is a good land which the LORD our God is giving us.’ “Nevertheless you would not go up, but rebelled against the command of the LORD your God; and you complained in your tents, and said, ‘Because the LORD hates us, He has brought us out of the land of Egypt to deliver us into the hand of the Amorites, to destroy us.” (Deuteronomy 1:25-27 NKJV)

What kind of words come out of you when you come across a terrifying situation? Do you start grumbling and complaining or do you start rejoicing in the promise and fighting the good fight?

This year be willing to change your confession and be grateful for what God has given and promised you, regardless of what giant you see. Be intentional about declaring the promises of God no matter what your situations are speaking.

Remember, it is better to magnify God with your words than to magnify your problems. Because, what you magnify this year will be your anchor for the entire year.

For example, if God has promised you a house this year, don’t magnify how you don’t have the money or resources for it. Instead, declare the promises of God, and how He has provided for you in the past.

You having the promise depends ultimately on what you do now; what words you are declaring now!

“For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says the Lord, thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you a future and a hope.” (Jer 29:11 NKJV)

2. What Are You Hearing?

“Where can we go up? Our brethren have discouraged our hearts, saying, “The people are greater and taller than we; the cities are great and fortified up to heaven; moreover we have seen the sons of the Anakim there.” (Deuteronomy 1:28 NKJV)

The Lord had already told the people of Israel that the land is good and it is given to them. But the words of their brothers painted a wrong picture in the people’s heart. And the people were so filled with fear and refused to go because of the words of a few men.

They forgot about the picture God showed them a few verses before of how good the land is, and how they are to enter boldly and not be afraid. They chose the words of men over the promises of God.

“Yet in spite of this word you did not believe the Lord your God,” (Deuteronomy 1:32 ESV)

Words that you hear can either push you towards your destiny or separate you from your blessing.

In 2025, be careful of what words you allow in your ears. If you give ears to the fears and unbelief of others, their fear will become your fear and discourage you from entering into God’s promises over your life.

Let the promises of God be louder than any words of man in your life. As Author Kim D’Souza said, “Just as faith comes by hearing; fear also comes by hearing”. May we choose to hear His Word and believe Him above every wrong words of man.

3.How Do I Guard What I Hear and Speak?

One practical way you can walk in faith this year is to be found in the right company. Because even though the ten spies came back with a negative report there was a different group of Joshua and Caleb who came back with a good report.

Connect yourself to a spirit filled group who are walking by faith in the Word of God. If you don’t have one, stay connected to us at Soar Girls. We are a group of girls who have decided to take God at His Word despite what the world says. Come join us, and let’s soar in Christ this year!

XoXo,

Neha

Why Your Prophesies are not Coming to Pass

by Team Soar Girls | Jan 18, 2025 | Christian Walk, Healing & Freedom

“So God heard their groaning, and God remembered His covenant with Abraham, with Isaac, and with Jacob.” (Exodus 2:24 NKJV)

Have you ever read this verse and wondered whether God had forgotten the children of Israel, and was it that only when they began groaning that He remembered them?

“Then God remembered Rachel, and God listened to her and opened her womb.” (Genesis 30:22 NKJV)

Again, does this mean God had forgotten Rachel?

The Hebrew Word ‘remembered’ here, means not only to bring something to mind, but to ‘act on somebody’s behalf’.

As you have entered this New Year, let me assure you, God has not forgotten you or the prophesies He spoke over your life. In fact, He is waiting to act on your behalf.

The eyes of the Lord go to and fro to see who is it who remembers the Word He spoke to them, and has held onto it by faith (2 Chronicles 16:9). Again, it says in Isaiah 49:15, “Can a woman forget her nursing child, And not have compassion on the son of her womb? Surely they may forget, Yet I will not forget you.”

So if God doesn’t forget, then what is the problem?

It is we who forget – By giving the place of God to something or someone else or by choosing to settle with something that is not God’s best.

1. Giving the place of God to something or someone else

“Now when Rachel saw that she bore Jacob no children, Rachel envied her sister, and said to Jacob, “Give me children, or else I die!” And Jacob’s anger was aroused against Rachel, and he said, “Am I in the place of God, who has withheld from you the fruit of the womb?” (Genesis 30:1–2 NKJV)

When Rachel saw that she bore no children, in her frustration she went to Jacob instead of going to God, until Jacob reminded her of her mistake. It was when she understood this that in the same chapter we read: God remembered Rachel and opened her womb (Genesis 30:22 NKJV)

Your source is God, not man. He is your promise keeper. He is waiting to act on your behalf but you need to fix your eyes on Him and not on put your trust in man or some other source.

2. Choosing to settle with something that is not God’s best

“Now it happened after a long time [about forty years] that the king of Egypt died. And the children of Israel (Jacob) groaned and sighed because of the bondage, and they cried out. And their cry for help because of their bondage ascended to God.” (Exodus 2:23 AMP, emphasis mine)

As you can see in the above Scripture, the Israelites for a long time had settled in their bondage. That caused a delay in their deliverance. Similarly if you read about the life of Moses, who was supposed to be their deliverer, the Bible says he was content to live with the Jethro, the Midianite and even got married to his daughter (Exodus 2:21).

Don’t settle for something that is not God’s best for your life. You cant stop at Haran and settle there when God is leading you to Canaan (Genesis 11:31).

But when the Israelites cried for help, the Bible says “God acknowledged them” (Genesis 2:25), and acted on their behalf.

Your God never forgets! Some of you have even turned bitter against God, where as He is the only one who is working for your good. Even as you are reading this, I believe it is God’s love coming to you and reminding you of what YOU have forgotten, and not Him! 2025 is the year of Takeover. You are so close to your promised land. Do not let go this time!

XOXO

Author Kim D’Souza

Freedom From Porn-Practical Steps

by Team Soar Girls | Jul 18, 2024 | Healing & Freedom

Recently, we received a mail from someone who opened up about her struggle with watching porn. She said, “I used to watch porn occasionally. I stopped it, but I kept failing. I got married, but I feel like watching it sometimes. I haven’t been honest about this with anyone, but I felt the need to do so now more than ever. Can you please pray for me?”

Are you facing a similar struggle?

Here’s our response, which will help you:

Declare and Meditate on the Truth

1. You have been given a spirit of self-control; you are not weak.

“for God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control.” 2 Timothy 1:7

2. You have been given the grace to live in purity.

“For the grace of God has appeared, bringing salvation for all people, training us to renounce ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright, and godly lives in the present age.” Titus 2:11–12

3. Surrender is key.

“Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.” James 4:7

4. Renew your mind.

“Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.” Romans 12:1-2

5 . God is faithful.

“If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.” 1 John 1:9

Practical steps to outwit porn

1. Identify the triggers
Self-evaluate to understand what triggers make you go back to the habit. Is it watching movies that have explicit scenes or romantic songs? Is it indulging in gross talk or boredom or sitting alone? Once you identify the triggers, uproot them and run away from the environment.

2. Build a support system
Whether through therapy, support groups, or trusted friends and family, having a supportive system is essential.

3. Be mindful
Be mindful of what you are watching, reading, and hearing. Establish habits to read and listen to content that will empower and encourage you.

4. Be Accountable
Use applications on your phone and computers to block sites and images. Every time you are tempted, have an accountability partner you can connect with, to pray with you and guide you.

5. Develop healthy habits
Eat healthy, exercise, go for walks, or learn a new skill. Keep your mind active and renewed.Do not be tricked anymore; now that you know, choose with understanding and choose differently.

Your end is not fear, shame, guilt or death, but it is an abundant life, full of joy in Jesus Christ. We are here for you, we care about you and we are cheering for you.

We have recently launched SoarGirls Academy- an online inspirational mentorship platform for young girls ( Age 13 to 30 years) in the area of self-worth and friendships.

We recommend you enroll in the course on Outwitting Porn in your life and be set free from this addiction.

Xoxo
Sheryl Gadre

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2. What Are You Hearing?

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