FREE! The 5 Day Prayer Journal (New launch)

FREE! The 5 Day Prayer Journal (New launch)

Hello Girls,

How has your daily time with God been?

Struggling to maintain consistency or does it feel like an empty ritual? Hmm… but we are sure deep down you have this desire to connect with your Creator like never before.

Well, we can help you in being intentional in your pursuit of God.

Prayer Journal

 

A Customised Prayer Journal for You

 

Presenting our new launch “My 5 Day Prayer Journal” to help you enrich and transform your daily time with God with Bible verse illustrations by Author Kim D’Souza.

Journaling your insights during your time with God is a practice that has been proven beneficial to many. Here are three immediate benefits to journaling:

  1. It brings clarity to your thoughts.
  2. It builds your faith as you see God speaking to you consistently through His word.
  3. It will eventually become a recorded milestone of your spiritual life.

 So, go ahead and download the FREE My 5 Day Prayer Journal by Soar Girls and write back to us at [email protected] how it changed your time with God.

XOXO
Sheryl Gadre

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Feeling Hopeless? Or Desperate?

Feeling Hopeless? Or Desperate?

Hey, daughter of God. Are you feeling hopeless? Or are you in the midst of a situation where you’re desperate for help?

Well, here’s what David did when he found himself in a similar situation…

 But David found STRENGTH in the Lord!! 1 Sam 30:6

 Yes, the situation was desperate; the enemy had taken their families and not just their belongings. They were taken captive and not just RANSOME. They were gone, nothing to the sight, a hopeless situation. And they were ‘AS GOOD AS DEAD’, actually WORSE than dead. Death closes the chapter, captivity meant they were alive but none knew where they were.

 Ever been in that situation, where you see your loved one being dragged away from you ? Or everything you had was lost or was taken from you?

Go to God

 

The husbands, the fathers, the mighty men of valor in David’s army could do nothing but cry and moan. They lost even their senses as they wanted to stone David believing he was the reason for their children and wives missing. David was left with none, alone, pressed down, he was in despair but he knew the GOD he believed in HAD NOT LEFT HIS SIDE!!

This is a reminder if you are feeling hopeless or if you are in a desperate situation when you are losing strength and peace – GO TO GOD!

David “FOUND” “STRENGTH” in the Lord!

We later see in this story how he eventually gets back all that the enemy had dared taken from him and more!!

David recovered everything the Amalekites had taken, including his two wives. Nothing was missing: young or old, boy or girl, plunder or anything else they had taken. David brought everything back. He took all the flocks and herds, and his men drove them ahead of the other livestock, saying, “This is David’s plunder.” 1 Sam 30:18-20

Be encouraged, go to GOD, and FIND your STRENGTH in Him!!

 Xoxo,

Ruta Miller

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Should I Consider Marrying a Boy Who Watches Porn?

Should I Consider Marrying a Boy Who Watches Porn?

So, you like this boy and he likes you too. You have genuinely kept your emotions aside and are seeking God for His will for your marriage. Along the way, this boy confides to you that he is addicted to porn. What would you do? Should you still consider marrying a boy who watches porn?

Should I Consider Marrying a Boy Who Watches Porn?

 

Considering the shame that is associated with porn, it is credible that the boy has openly shared his struggle with you.

But the question is what’s his motive behind sharing? Is it because he is genuinely seeking a breakthrough in this area? Or is it because he is making you aware of his addiction to gain your sympathy and also so you don’t get a shock later. (We have heard people addicted to porn plead mercy saying: I don’t know what to do. It gets better of me every time)

Politely ask him some direct questions like: Why is he sharing it with you? Since when he has been addicted? Is he aware of the end road to porn? Has he taken efforts to overcome it? Has he opened up his struggle to someone mature and godly who he can be accountable to?

Porn is driven by lust and looks at sex as a commodity, thereby devaluing love, sacrifice and honour that are foundations to a godly marriage. It is as good as virtual adultery. Addiction to porn is progressive and unless dealt with in an aggressive manner, it can wreck relationships.

Walk away

As hard as it may sound, it is advisable at this juncture that you stop pursuing this relationship and move away in an amicable manner (without putting the person down or hurting him).

Clearly the boy is not ready for marriage and needs time, space and lot of “Word” to get delivered from the grip of porn. The root of pornography is often about one’s inner health and a broken identity than an external desire.

Give him space to take account of his life and take intentional steps to get to the root of this addiction and eliminate it.

Please don’t start mentoring

If he is asking you what to do, please don’t take up the task of mentoring him, rather direct him to a godly and mature man who can genuinely help him through the Word of God. If he doesn’t seem to have someone like this, he needs to make sincere efforts to find one.

Getting free from porn often is smoother and faster when you have an accountability partner.

Should I Consider Marrying a Boy Who Watches Porn?

 

One can’t be making excuses like, “I don’t know what to do. I am bound etc.” If one is capable enough to search and hide stuff in their gadgets to feed their addiction, then one should also be capable enough to search for a remedy for their problem. There are many sites/ apps like Covenant EyesMoral Revolution that deal exclusively with porn addiction and it’s roots, and provide long term Biblical solutions.

Marriage is not the solution please

Porn is fuelled by lust and marriage is not the solution to porn, if you are thinking that way. In fact research shows that marriages are two times more likely to fail if the man looks at porn and three times more likely if the woman looks at porn. We have seen cases where porn and it’s subsequent effects has broken trust in marriages and scarred the opposite person tremendously.
Marriages became miserable because it was not dealt with and it spiralled from one level of perversion to another.

 

Thank God that He Opened Your Eyes

It is hurting I know. But don’t cry or sulk over it. In fact you should thank God that you came to know the facts even before marriage was in the picture and not after you got married!

If the boy is serious about you, he will make efforts to change and if not you will soon figure that out.

Above all, trust God, if He has to bring you both back, He will, but right free your heart from any expectations and emotional attachments and let go…

XOXO
Author Kim D’souza

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Never Lose This!

Never Lose This!

No matter what you go through in life, there is one thing you can never afford to lose.

And that’s your song!

Psalm 149: 1
Praise the Lord! Sing to the Lord a new song, his praise in the assembly of the godly!

Psalm 149: 6-8
Let the high praises of God be in their throats and two-edged swords in their hands,to execute vengeance on the nations
and punishments on the peoples,to bind their kings with chains
and their nobles with fetters of iron.

Never Lose This!

 

Praise is the highest form of faith.

Your song of praise has the power to bind your enemy with chains. When you choose to celebrate God despite and inspite of what is happening around you, remember there are two parties who are an audience to it. One is the devil – who moves further and further into frustration, knowing that he is fighting a loosing battle.

And, the other is God whose chest swells with pride as He sees a “son” who has positioned himself to receive a promotion in the unseen and seen world.

Recently in my time of worship God put these words in my heart.

In the midst of the raging seas,
I hear you whisper a song to me
A song of victory

My child though your eyes cannot yet see,
And all I need you to do
Is to sing it along with me

Listen, friend, never lose your song! Your victory is nearer than you can imagine.

XOXO
Author Kim D’Souza

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5 Lies You Believed About Your Friends! (FREE EBOOK)

5 Lies You Believed About Your Friends! (FREE EBOOK)

A friend is someone with whom you share a strong bond and deep trust with. In this journey of life, God gives us the freedom to choose our friends. Now that’s such an important choice, because they are the ones we give access into our lives.

Well, as much as God-sent friends can fast forward you into your destiny, the devil can plant wrong friends to subtly gain entry into your life and wreck your destiny!

Peer pressure can make us do things contrary to our conscience, bring guilt and condemnation and ultimately take us away from the beautiful plans of God. That’s why I wrote this short Ebook – “5 Lies You Believed About Your Friends” – for you.

5 Lies You Believed About Your Friends!

 

In the book, I present to you 5 lies about friends/friendships that you may have believed, and together we will also uncover the truth from the Word of God.

Also, don’t forget to take the Red Alert Friendship Quiz [HERE]

Don’t wake up when its too late!!!

XOXO
Author Kim D’Souza

5 Lies You Believed About Your Friends!

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Be Bold and Say NO

Be Bold and Say NO

Be bold and say NO.

Say No to what? Well…

  • Say NO to condemnation, for God has made you righteous, who is to condemn you.
    (Rom 8:1)
  • Say NO to fear, for God has not given you a spirit of fear but of power, love and sound mind.
    (2 Tim 1:7)
  • Say NO to unhealthy relationships, for you are called to embrace godly friendships.
    (2 Cor 6:14)
Be Bold and Say NO
  • Say no to the lies of the enemy, for God’s Truth found in His Word dictates and determines your life.
    (2 Cor 5:17)
  • Say no to peer pressure, instead stand firm in Godly values.
    (Col 3:23)
  • Say no to comparison, instead see yourself the way God sees you.
    (Eph 2:10)
  • Say no to self-pity, instead rise up and be the warrior you are in Christ.
    (Rom 12:2)
  • Say no to gossip, instead value godly conversations.
    (Eph 4:29)
  • Say no to wrong habits, instead hold on to your freedom in Christ.
    (Rom 6:6)
  • Lastly, Be Bold and Say no to backsliding and lukewarmness, instead press on to finish the purpose for which Christ has called you.
    (1 Cor 9:24)

XOXO,
Ria Jobin

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