5 Tips to Break-Free From Screen Addiction

5 Tips to Break-Free From Screen Addiction

Struggling with screen addiction? Netflix, games, social media seem to have taken a toll on your productive time? Wondering how to break-free from the cycle of mindless scrolling?

Smartphones and screen time are changing the way we think, but even more concerning, they are hijacking our heart. Remember, the phone was made for you and not vice versa. Here are 5 simple tips to break free from screen addiction:

5 Tips to Break-Free From Screen Addiction

1.Track your Screen Time

A good way to fight your screen time consumption is to start by tracking the total time you spend with your gadgets every day. Once you get your consumption breakup (Apple or android – all have this feature), be intentional in reducing the time spent on apps that steal most of your time. It’s a good habit to uninstall these apps for extended periods, especially if they are networking or binge watching apps. You can even hide these apps from your home screen so it remains out-of-sight and out-of-mind. Another trick is to mute your screen’s colors which will make pics, video, apps, less tempting to click.

If for some reason you cannot uninstall this app, then try and moderate or lower its consumption or keep a fixed time to check it. Oh yes, you don’t have to check your emails first thing in the morning unless you hold the portfolio of the president of your country .

2. Get an Accountability Partner

The Bible says, Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor. If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. (Ecc 4: 9,10).

It’s good to team up with an accountability partner who could be your spiritual mentor, leader or a mature friend of the same sex. This friend should be someone who can push you to accomplish your set task and not pacify your effort to overcome screen addiction. You can share your screen time status, your struggles, and victory stories with each other and encourage one another from the Word of God.

If you don’t have anyone, you could also connect to a Jesus loving community like SOAR GIRLS that can help build you, even as you humble yourself and open up about your struggles.

5 Tips to Break-Free From Screen Addiction

3. Allocate “God and You” time

Be disciplined about allocating a fixed time for spending with the Word of God and in prayer, especially first thing in the morning. This is one habit that will help you break free from all your addictions.

When Jesus walked on the earth, he would often withdraw to lonely places to pray (Luke 5:16).

Build a Secret place this season. A secret place is “Your time alone” with God. The devil is happy as long as you are “alone with your gadgets” so he can fill your mind with the filth of the world and bring thoughts to you that tell you that you are not good enough, capable enough and loved enough. But he is mortally scared when you are “alone with God”. Because that’s when you start becoming like Jesus and reflecting Him through your life.

Also lay hold of a physical Bible instead of depending on digital Bibles which are so distractive, and start dwelling on its passages. Remember the Bible is not just a book, but it is God’s Word and is meant to be read slowly, deeply, thoughtfully, repeatedly.

4. Give Digital Detox a Try

Digital Detox refers to a period of time where you refrain from using digital devices such as smart phones, tabs, computer screens and social media sites. Its time you give those fidgety fingers some rest! It can help you to take your gaze away from temporary pleasures and help you realign your life around what really matters.

So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen, since what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal (2 Corinthians 4:18)

You can even create gadget free zones by limiting their usage in certain areas in your house. Avoid taking your gadgets with you on dining table, bathrooms or on your bed. Intentionally keep these areas gadget-free and full of good and godly conversations.

The word you need to constantly remind yourself is “RESIST”. Every time you get tempted to break your momentum, pick up the Word of God. Lay hold of your physical Bible and start reading it aloud. Make it personal by underlining and circling scriptures that are touching your heart.

5. Pick an Outdoor Hobby or Activity

Find out a hobby or activity that you can indulge in without using screens. How about trying your hands at gardening, painting, calligraphy, sketching, poetry, cooking etc? The list is endless.

Ask the Holy Spirit to guide you in what skill or activity you can pick up. It’s amazing how God can open up your understanding through these experiences and make you more sensitive to His voice.

Did this post help you? Which of the above tips you are keen to try out in your effort to reduce your screen time and break free from screen addiction? Anything else you can add that worked for you?

XOXO
Author Kim & Shiney

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Stop Limiting Yourself! (Podcast)

Stop Limiting Yourself! (Podcast)

Struggling with who you are? Introvert, extrovert, good at that, bad at this! This label that you may be giving yourself is nothing compared to the real label that you have. You are a Daughter of God. So, stop limiting yourself!

You got to listen to our latest Soar Girls podcast episode!! In this podcast, we are talking to Emma Jane Catchpole, all the way from Australia. Emma is a poetess, artist and is passionate about sharing the light of God and message of His love all over the world.

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In Part 1 of this episode, Emma encourages us to deep dive into our real identity of who we are and how we shouldnt shut down parts of us by trying to fit into the mold of who we think we should be.

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Women’s Day Contest! 🎉

Women’s Day Contest! 🎉

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To celebrate International Women’s Day , we are so excited to announce a Women’s Day Contest and you get a chance to win upto 34 USD amazon vouchers! (2500 INR).

Announcing our very own COLORING SHEET CONTEST and the one who colors well will get a chance to win!

There’s going to be two winners: First prize and Second prize!
The First prize winner will get 1500 INR and the second prize winner will get 1000 INR worth Amazon vouchers. If you are in a different country , don’t worry this is applicable for you too!

To Enter This Contest

  • Download and print the sheet (choose anyone) we have provided below
  • Start Coloring!! Yey, as simple as that. You can use any type of colours you want
  • Take a picture of it or better still, take a picture of you with your coloured sheet and upload on your Instagram story and tag us @soar.girls
  • Tag three of your friends
  • Make sure to follow @soar.girls
  • DM us your name and email id on our IG profile.
  • The Last day to enter this contest is on 8th March 2022, 11:59 pm IST.
  • The results will be declared on 10th March 2022! So keep watching this space.
  • The winners will be decided by our Soar Girls Jury and their decision will be final.

So hurry, join this Women’s Day Contest and don’t forget to share with your friends so they may participate too!

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Feeling Guilty All The Time?

Feeling Guilty All The Time?

Are you someone who is feeling guilty all the time? Or have you ever felt guilty about something you have done and over time you realized you distanced yourself from God?

Well, you are not the only one. We all feel guilt. But do you know that carrying that guilt is not God’s intention for you nor does He look at you that way!

He made me right

Sharing a vision that someone saw recently:

I saw a man standing with his back towards a beach and to his left, a little distance away stood the devil.

Feeling Guilty All The Time

All the devil did was to point his finger at the man and say “Guilty”. But then the shadow of Jesus came upon this man from behind, and then from the front came the hand of God pointing at the man, saying “Right”.

Every time the devil said guilty, God kept saying Right. Soon huge waves of mercy came gushing over the man.

Once the waves settled down, I saw the devil no more.

Guilt by the Accuser

Remember the devil is an accuser from the beginning. The Word of God in Revelation 12:10 says, Then I heard a loud voice in heaven, saying, “Now the salvation, and the power, and the kingdom of our God and the authority of His Christ have come, for the accuser of our brethren has been thrown down, he who accuses them before our God day and night.

Day and night the devil accuses you before God but that doesn’t convince God when He sees you. When Lord Jesus died on the cross, He even saw the possible worst you could do, but He knew through Him and His payment on the cross was worth getting you out of that guilt.

Guilt Response

When Adam sinned against God, he hid himself.

That’s what guilt does!

It makes us hide ourselves in the passions of the world, the distractions of TV, mobile, shows, etc that we lose our connection with the Lord. We think God is done with us, but that’s so far from the truth.

Those thoughts about you being no good, a sinner, the worst, are really not from God. These thoughts bring death to your soul. Then why entertain them anymore?

Truth against Guilt

There is nothing more powerful than standing on the Word and meditating on what the word of God says. Below are two verses for you to remember and meditate on every day.

For He made Him who knew no sin to be sin for us, that we might become the righteousness of God in Him (2 Corinthians 5:21). Jesus took your sins upon Himself so He could give you His righteousness that is His right standing with God.

“For I will be merciful to their unrighteousness, and their sins and their lawless deeds I will remember no more” (Hebrews 8:12).
In His great mercy, God makes no remembrance of your past.

So, from now on, you need to stop feeling guilty all the time and instead –

Make this your Confession: –

I am the righteousness of God in Christ Jesus. My sins are washed away by my merciful God the Father.

Amen.

XOXO,
Alisha Jose

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Drugs are Fun!?

Drugs are Fun!?

Recently we received the below query from a girl on the lines – Drugs are fun! We thought of sharing it as a blog post for the benefit of other girls who may have similar questions. Hope this helps!

Drugs are “fun”! Why I should miss out? All my friends are into it. Also, I feel it’s just a phase and it will pass out, I can never get addicted to it.
– Ana Dias (name changed for privacy)

Sharing below our response to her query

Thank you for your question. Like you, we believe there are many others who may have similar questions and thoughts running through their minds.

So you are not alone!

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For some time let us assume you are right, you will not get addicted to drugs. You believe you are mentally stronger than most people and that you have your priorities set right.

But would you really want to use the gifts and character God gave you to try drugs? Your life is precious and your life is meant to set many free from their bondage, but not be in bondage itself.

In Luke 4, Jesus was tempted by the enemy, but Jesus answered, “It is said: ‘Do not put the Lord your God to the test.’”

Don’t let the enemy tempt you, fight back with the word of God. These are subtle ways the enemy tries to gain a foothold in your life, so he can grip you fully and destroy you. Remember no addict started off thinking that he would be an addict one day!
And I can really understand the feeling of missing out on all the fun. However, I can assure you that the many people I know who started with just trying out for fun will tell you to run as far as you can from a company that leads you to drugs.

Moreover, Drugs are definitely not fun!

Drugs are meant to destroy you physically, emotionally, and spiritually. There are so many good and productive ways to have fun with your friends. How about going for treks, engaging in team sports, or learning some cool skills together?

Your path is towards rewards and blessings, but these things are only a deviation from your path set by the enemy.

Choose the surroundings and the people you are spending time with to propel you to your God destiny. Because if you don’t you will lose many years of your life pleasing yourself or people rather than pleasing God.

Child of God, it’s ok to say bye to some people and some habits. Here is the verse to gain victory 2 Corinthians 10:5 We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ.

Keep pursuing God, we are cheering and praying for you! Feel free to reach out to our Soar Girls Community and invest in genuine and godly friendships.

XOXO,
Sheryl Rajesh

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The parable of the Sower – Are you the good ground?

The parable of the Sower – Are you the good ground?

Have you come across the parable of the Sower in the Bible? If you haven’t, you can find it in Matthew 13. It talks about the Sower who goes to sow seeds, and the four different types of grounds the seeds fall on.

The men and women who preach, teach and guide you are the Sowers, and your heart is the ground. While God sends the sower to sow the seed in your life, it is in your hands to keep your hearts receptive to yield a harvest.

Let’s look at the four types of grounds mentioned in the parable of the Sower, and analyze for ourselves which category we fall under.

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1) Along the path ground:

The seeds that fall on the path are relatable to individuals that are too distracted to understand the Word. The Word of God is available, but they are just too distracted to receive it. Hence the Word coming to them becomes just like seeds that fall along the path, which end up eaten by the birds.

Girls, don’t be like this ground. Whenever you receive God’s Word – through your church, online teaching, blogs, podcast, etc, don’t let distraction steal your breakthrough. Because your breakthrough is hidden in God’s Word.

2) Rocky places:

Rocky places are grounds that have soil, but very little. Hence, it’s very difficult for any seed that falls to grow and stay rooted.

When God speaks to us through His Word it is important not only to hear it, but meditate on it, and obey it. That’s when the Word gets rooted in us. Otherwise, it becomes like seeds that fall on a rocky place that fails to get rooted.

3) Among the thorns:

This is the group that is preoccupied with the worries of life or constantly thinking about the “TO-DO list”.

What they fail to realize is that it is at the feet of Jesus that they receive true rest, in His Word is the solution to all of life’s troubles.

Jesus says in Matthew 6:25. “Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear.” Then again He says in Matthew 6:33. “But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.

4) Good soil:

This is a ground that is well looked after, watered, nourished, and protected.

These are individuals that know the importance of the Word coming to them. They are neither distracted nor do they allow the worries of this world to take over. They prepare themselves to receive the Word, meditate and act on it.

To these individuals, the Word comes like seeds that fall on good soil that grow, get rooted, and bear fruits in its season.

This year, may we be found in the fourth group!

They will be like a tree planted by the water that sends out its roots by the stream. It does not fear when heat comes; its leaves are always green. It has no worries in a year of drought and never fails to bear fruit.” Jeremiah 17:8

God bless!

XOXO,
Ruta Miller

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